Not only are we commanded to love God preeminently, but we're also to love our neighbor the way we love ourselves. What does our self-love look like? We love ourselves by always giving ourselves the benefit of the doubt, believing the best about our motives and actions, and striving to obtain for ourselves whatever we want.
- Elyse Fitzpatrick
Because He Loves Me: How Christ Transforms Our Daily Life (pp. 67-68). Good News Publishers/Crossway Books.